Are You Helping Him Build? Or Facilitating His Fall?

What is the price we pay for the past being, which we no longer are? It can be that the person who was involved in our past, refuse to let it remain past; and no matter who you may be now, because of their decision to remain, their vision is impaired from seeing the present, as well as the future.
As you have read in my article “A True Love Ending” where I kissed the black Rose, I was not always as the man that I am today. I was toxic, I was corrupt, I was without knowledge of self. I was with knowledge of mimic, meaning I knew very well how to be the product of my environment. The person who suffered through my lack of self awareness and love understanding, was the person with whom I was with for 5 years. Unfortunately, the things she went through with me traumatized her eternally, because when I from my personal suffering, evolved into a man of enlightenment and truth consciousness, she still saw the man who’s only enlightenment was in a bottle. No matter how much I tried to convince through my actions and no longer just words, her mind was so fixed that neither her eyes nor her heart was able to see that God had entered man. She was so used to the presence of the devil, that she kept looking for him; and as she kept on in search of him, her mind, and her heart, became subdued by him.


She became more angry, more thirsty for arguments and situations that provoked them, she starved from understanding and feasted upon confusion and assumptions. She lusted upon her dreams which were nightmares. The man she loved, now became her enemy. There was no longer anything I could do, she was gone.


Black love is a powerful force. It is an infinite energy once conjoined. Black love is feared because, its presence alone, eliminates the darkness, by bringing in the Sun more closer to the Earth.
“Such a power must be stopped,” said the one who ruled the night. “How?” Asked the Bishop. “Through separation!” Declared the ruler. “For the light which leads the blind cannot be shed, nor would it any longer be able to lead, if it’s energy is corrupt!” He continued with laughter. “We have rule over the darkness, which means who can strengthen our control to rule over that which gives light to those who travel in darkness. We must mis-lead the moon to lead for us. So that for even when the moon’s light shines, there will be fear of direction. What is the Sun without his Moon? Indeed we must separate the two.”


So it was written, and so it was done. Now we must enlighten ourselves upon the result of the experiment that was done on our moon, the black woman. As she has been separated to become so distant from the Black Man.
Now this is not at all an attack on black women. I love my Beautiful. There are many Black Queens who exist and the only “trapping” that they do, is trapping the devil “ruler of the night”, from entering into their kingdom. But because I myself can relate, and know that there are unfortunately a number of black women who are both consciously and unconsciously, tearing their man down rather than helping him build a kingdom. I want to touch on that because I feel like the only way this issue is to be solved, just like any other issue, it’s existence must be discussed.
Many of our women are allowing themselves to be influenced by influences that don’t have their best interest at heart. These influences reside in the music they listen to, the posts they see daily on Instagram and Facebook, other peoples relationship stories, and even certain books they read. They are inspired to read “Think Like A Man,” but not “Spirit of A Man”.


All of which I have mentioned, have a powerful influence on our women’s minds. Miss-educating them on how “their own” relationship with their man should be, and then they get the idea of “my man should be doing this, oh why he not doing this?! Oh it must be because he’s doing this!” Whatever the “This” is, is a created excuse for separation, and unfortunately, these women who have been encouraged, have many.
These women are very much disabled from being able to let go of their significant others past. Now, if a man has physically harmed you or has assaulted you in a manner which is unforgivable, then hopefully you left him alone after the situation occurred, and you’ve moved on for the betterment of yourself. But our women have been taught to hold onto a grudge against the black man, much harder than they should hold onto their love for him. You see this everyday. Those who accepted the lesson as guidance, you find to be more successful of tearing themselves away and keeping their distance from the black man, more-so than they are successful at keeping the empire which they began to build, alive and moving towards evolution.
The man could have been pretty bad with his relationship in the past, yet he has evolved, grown into a man who has connected with spirit. He no longer thinks, talk, act, or even walk as he once did. But he see’s that his woman cannot accept that, and he himself is heartbroken. She doesn’t see what he has grown to be, because she’s still stuck on what he used to be. So she never grew, only he. She compares his actions to the actions of other men who although may not be the best men, they are black men, and for that reason, but not that reason alone, the intentions of his actions must be the same. She is paranoid of him. Rather than realizing herself and fixing the relationship which has been dissolved between herself and her own heart, she still decides to remain with him, while she doesn’t believe in him. Understand that this is not the woman’s fault, for she was re-programmed to think and function this way.
So what does this do to the man? If he doesn’t save himself, by leaving this toxic woman so that he may healthy develop into the man he is to be, he is subjected to become enslaved by the ruler of the dark’s creation.
He may either fall victim to her wordplay of constantly bringing back the version of him in the past and then become that again, he can continue to try to convince her that he’s changed and then start to live his life convincing her, doing everything to her liking and as she see’s because he loves her and wants to keep her happy. But soon as she doesn’t like something or feel that he’s not pleasing her enough, she hits him in the head with arguments and false allegations intending to make him feel that he is wrong and she is right and that he must still fix himself, because everything about him is still all wrong.
This treatment has turned black men against black women, which is the return result for the turn of black women against their men. A number of couples decide to remain in a relationship although this type of situation occurs, but instead of being an energy of love, they have a relationship built upon hate, distrust, disloyalty, dishonesty, and distance. The worst part about it is that these couples decide to create children, and now their whole family is a product of corruption. The cycle then continues because the children are educated upon what they see at home.


We need to fall back in love with each other! Black women need to throw away those toxic books! Turn your eyes away from that which tells lies to your vision (TV). Turn your eyes and your attention from that which you see every day on your social media, that encourage you to solely think outside of your heart, rather than within it. And Black Men, my brothers, we must do the same. If you cannot forgive a man for what he has done in the past, then for the betterment for both him and yourself, you must move on. Do not attempt to keep alive a relationship which you already know is dead of love. This too, also goes for my brothers as well. Are we helping each other build? Or are we facilitating each others fall? This is the question which we must enlighten ourselves upon.
For what is the Sun without the Moon? The Moon without the Sun? For we are an incomplete solar system. Let us not allow ourselves, to become strangers to our own kind.



2 thoughts on “Are You Helping Him Build? Or Facilitating His Fall?

  1. I love this. & I’m speechless to how true this really is. Also inspiring and educational. I’m glad your expressing this to EVERY one. We need it.


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